Comments on: Goodbye To A Good Thing. http://www.snoskred.org/2007/09/goodbye-to-good-thing.html Life in the Country Mon, 22 Mar 2010 04:04:32 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.7.1 hourly 1 By: Babyamore (Trish) http://www.snoskred.org/2007/09/goodbye-to-good-thing.html/comment-page-1#comment-10416 Babyamore (Trish) Mon, 29 Oct 2007 04:48:43 +0000 http://snoskred.org/2007/09/goodbye-to-a-good-thing/#comment-10416 This is a very honest and revealing post. Depression is so often a taboo subject and there is a stigma attached. So many people don't get help because of this. Iâ??m sorry that you had to experience things like you did and the betrayal of once loved friends. I agree with the idea that everything happens to teach us and help us 'grow' though sometimes we don't want to know it. At the time it is so very painful and raw.I hope all the moves you are making see brightier days ahead. This is a very honest and revealing post. Depression is so often a taboo subject and there is a stigma attached. So many people don’t get help because of this.

Iâ??m sorry that you had to experience things like you did and the betrayal of once loved friends. I agree with the idea that everything happens to teach us and help us ‘grow’ though sometimes we don’t want to know it. At the time it is so very painful and raw.I hope all the moves you are making see brightier days ahead.

]]> By: Sueblimely http://www.snoskred.org/2007/09/goodbye-to-good-thing.html/comment-page-1#comment-9982 Sueblimely Wed, 10 Oct 2007 18:30:21 +0000 http://snoskred.org/2007/09/goodbye-to-a-good-thing/#comment-9982 Thanks for sharing this with us - depression is so common yet still not really understood by those who have not been through it. If more people were open about it then this may change. I have been there myself and finally discovered that in my case it was caused by a genetic problem. I got the help I needed and life is incomparably better. Other significant things have changed in my life including some of the people in it. True friends remain. It's not easy letting go of some things but why continue with those that hurt us and I now tend to think that when one door closes another will open. Thanks for sharing this with us - depression is so common yet still not really understood by those who have not been through it. If more people were open about it then this may change. I have been there myself and finally discovered that in my case it was caused by a genetic problem. I got the help I needed and life is incomparably better. Other significant things have changed in my life including some of the people in it. True friends remain. It’s not easy letting go of some things but why continue with those that hurt us and I now tend to think that when one door closes another will open.

]]> By: Julie http://www.snoskred.org/2007/09/goodbye-to-good-thing.html/comment-page-1#comment-9791 Julie Fri, 28 Sep 2007 12:23:00 +0000 http://snoskred.org/2007/09/goodbye-to-a-good-thing/#comment-9791 Brave, brave post, snos, and sympathy for all the upsets you have been through; as the saying goes 'don't let the ******** get you down.' Not even the ones you love. :-) Brave, brave post, snos, and sympathy for all the upsets you have been through; as the saying goes ‘don’t let the ******** get you down.’ Not even the ones you love. :-)

]]> By: lightening http://www.snoskred.org/2007/09/goodbye-to-good-thing.html/comment-page-1#comment-9788 lightening Fri, 28 Sep 2007 08:15:00 +0000 http://snoskred.org/2007/09/goodbye-to-a-good-thing/#comment-9788 Wow! What a post! I just want to give you a HUGE (((HUG))). :-) I do know something of what you've been through. I think it's different for everyone and yet in some ways the same. Something I'm still really bad at is the "goodbye" bit. Once someone has been in my life, I don't want to let them go. You and Kin have both given me some more thinking to do.... Wow! What a post! I just want to give you a HUGE (((HUG))). :-) I do know something of what you’ve been through. I think it’s different for everyone and yet in some ways the same. Something I’m still really bad at is the “goodbye” bit. Once someone has been in my life, I don’t want to let them go. You and Kin have both given me some more thinking to do….

]]> By: River http://www.snoskred.org/2007/09/goodbye-to-good-thing.html/comment-page-1#comment-9786 River Fri, 28 Sep 2007 07:48:00 +0000 http://snoskred.org/2007/09/goodbye-to-a-good-thing/#comment-9786 Wow this was a painful post to read. I'm glad you learnt to ditch the anger and move on. I know that isn't easy, but in the end holding on to anger (and hate) hurts no one so much as yourself.((( )))Is this how we do hugs? Wow this was a painful post to read. I’m glad you learnt to ditch the anger and move on. I know that isn’t easy, but in the end holding on to anger (and hate) hurts no one so much as yourself.((( )))Is this how we do hugs?

]]> By: Snoskred http://www.snoskred.org/2007/09/goodbye-to-good-thing.html/comment-page-1#comment-9784 Snoskred Fri, 28 Sep 2007 06:33:00 +0000 http://snoskred.org/2007/09/goodbye-to-a-good-thing/#comment-9784 Julie - It was difficult to write and even harder to post, but it needed doing. ;)<br/><br/>Kin - Yay, I love cookies! ;) I think we all need to share our darker stories in order to help others know it's ok to talk about it.. :)<br/><br/>Chani - Quite a nest of them.. I'm so glad it is over. I used to think walking away is such a difficult thing to do, and why should I let them drive me away? But now I know why - because I feel much better without them in my life. ;)<br/><br/>Emily - I look at you and wonder how you made it through the things you've had to endure, and I wonder how you did it. But I think the answer is, we keep going. That's all we can do.<br/><br/>Teeni - It did make me a stronger and much wiser person. I'm not the same as I used to be, and that is a good thing. ;)<br/><br/>CelloBella - Thanks! ;) I hope so..<br/><br/>Daisy - Thank you.. That was such a cute squeaky miow! :) Did you know I can meow? My kitties taught me. ;)<br/><br/>Manda - It's sad that I had to move forward in some ways, I left behind some fantastic people there, but it needed to be done.<br/><br/>Liv - I felt like ya'all could be trusted with it. :) That's a wonderful thing!<br/><br/>Meg - Thanks - and I might just be hollering! ;)<br/><br/>Tiggy - I thought it was pretty brave to post it because it was so hard to write it. I'm glad I did. :) Thanks!<br/><br/>Cugat - Thank you - the baiting community is lesser for many of the people who have left it, if you know who I mean. It never was quite the same without you. :)<br/><br/>Thanks for the comments everyone. ;)<br/><br/>Snoskred<br/><a HREF="http://www.snoskred.org/" REL="nofollow">www.snoskred.org</a> Julie - It was difficult to write and even harder to post, but it needed doing. ;)

Kin - Yay, I love cookies! ;) I think we all need to share our darker stories in order to help others know it’s ok to talk about it.. :)

Chani - Quite a nest of them.. I’m so glad it is over. I used to think walking away is such a difficult thing to do, and why should I let them drive me away? But now I know why - because I feel much better without them in my life. ;)

Emily - I look at you and wonder how you made it through the things you’ve had to endure, and I wonder how you did it. But I think the answer is, we keep going. That’s all we can do.

Teeni - It did make me a stronger and much wiser person. I’m not the same as I used to be, and that is a good thing. ;)

CelloBella - Thanks! ;) I hope so..

Daisy - Thank you.. That was such a cute squeaky miow! :) Did you know I can meow? My kitties taught me. ;)

Manda - It’s sad that I had to move forward in some ways, I left behind some fantastic people there, but it needed to be done.

Liv - I felt like ya’all could be trusted with it. :) That’s a wonderful thing!

Meg - Thanks - and I might just be hollering! ;)

Tiggy - I thought it was pretty brave to post it because it was so hard to write it. I’m glad I did. :) Thanks!

Cugat - Thank you - the baiting community is lesser for many of the people who have left it, if you know who I mean. It never was quite the same without you. :)

Thanks for the comments everyone. ;)

Snoskred
http://www.snoskred.org

]]> By: Cugat http://www.snoskred.org/2007/09/goodbye-to-good-thing.html/comment-page-1#comment-9777 Cugat Thu, 27 Sep 2007 14:43:00 +0000 http://snoskred.org/2007/09/goodbye-to-a-good-thing/#comment-9777 Thanks for sharing that story. It's a hard lesson to learn that if others don't know how to move on, then you have to. The baiting community will be weaker for your loss but you're much more appreciated elsewhere. <br/><br/><a HREF="http://www.vegetative.net/" REL="nofollow">Cugat</a> Thanks for sharing that story. It’s a hard lesson to learn that if others don’t know how to move on, then you have to. The baiting community will be weaker for your loss but you’re much more appreciated elsewhere.

Cugat

]]> By: tiggy http://www.snoskred.org/2007/09/goodbye-to-good-thing.html/comment-page-1#comment-9774 tiggy Thu, 27 Sep 2007 01:36:00 +0000 http://snoskred.org/2007/09/goodbye-to-a-good-thing/#comment-9774 Wow, that was a really courageous post. I'm sorry that you had to experience things like that but I am of the mind that everything happens to teach us something. I hope that you learned to believe in yourself! You are truly amazing. Wow, that was a really courageous post. I’m sorry that you had to experience things like that but I am of the mind that everything happens to teach us something. I hope that you learned to believe in yourself! You are truly amazing.

]]> By: Meg http://www.snoskred.org/2007/09/goodbye-to-good-thing.html/comment-page-1#comment-9773 Meg Thu, 27 Sep 2007 00:29:00 +0000 http://snoskred.org/2007/09/goodbye-to-a-good-thing/#comment-9773 Big hugs.<br/><br/>Don't hesitate to give me a holler if I can help with WordPress. Big hugs.

Don’t hesitate to give me a holler if I can help with WordPress.

]]> By: liv http://www.snoskred.org/2007/09/goodbye-to-good-thing.html/comment-page-1#comment-9772 liv Wed, 26 Sep 2007 18:43:00 +0000 http://snoskred.org/2007/09/goodbye-to-a-good-thing/#comment-9772 There's something that's freeing in the journey and in the letting go. I honor you for trusting us with some of the steps in your journey. There’s something that’s freeing in the journey and in the letting go. I honor you for trusting us with some of the steps in your journey.

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